A parenting plan is not optional
In Oregon, if you have minor children, the judgment must address parenting time and custody. Oregon law specifically requires a parenting plan in cases involving custody or parenting time under ORS 107.102. A vague agreement is usually not enough.
A strong parenting plan covers the regular weekly schedule, holidays, school breaks, transportation, and how parents will handle schedule changes. It should also explain how you will make major decisions for the child and how you will share information about school, health care, and activities. The clearer the plan, the less room there is for conflict later.
Parents often use the word custody loosely, but Oregon uses specific legal terms. Legal custody concerns decision-making authority, while parenting time addresses the child’s actual schedule. Parents can agree to joint custody only if both agree, and Oregon courts cannot order joint custody over one parent’s objection under ORS 107.169.