Where the forms fall short on children and parenting
Parenting terms are one of the biggest gaps between what a form asks for and what a family actually needs. A parenting plan should do more than name holidays and weekdays. It should clearly address exchanges, transportation, school breaks, decision-making, and how parents will handle changes when real life interrupts the schedule.
Forms also do not fully explain jurisdiction problems when a child has recently moved, lives in another state, or has a pending case elsewhere. Those cases can trigger the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act, codified in Oregon at ORS 109.701 and following. If the UCCJEA applies, the right court is not always obvious from the face of the paperwork.
Child support creates another common problem. Oregon uses guideline support calculations, and the numbers depend on income, parenting time, health insurance, child care, and other factors. A form may ask for the result, but it does not walk you through gathering reliable inputs or spotting when the worksheet and the proposed judgment do not match.